Q: What can I do so that God and people will like me?
A: To learn how to find favor in the eyes of G-d and man is an art. If you are seriously interested in doing this, you must learn this art seriously. One of the main secrets of finding favor is the word "chen," favor, which is spelled chet nun. These two letters are an acronym for "chiyuch nechmad," which means "a nice smile." Learn how to always have a gentle smile on your face. The secret of chochmah, wisdom, is chiyuch mah, "a little smile!"